That’s right. How many of you do this?

Me me me me!

I’m sitting here raising my hand! Jumping up and down!

Games.

Why do we do this?

Men are not mind readers ladies and I know that it’s not fair that we read all these books and watch all these movies about these warped, unrealistic representations of relationships and we then expect our boyfriend or husband or whatever to perform big romantic gestures and are then left complaining to our girlfriends about how “unromantic” our significant other is. I get it.

But, I digress!

The point of this post is to say stop. Stop with the games. Stop with playing dumb to get attention and changing yourself for men.

Like that picture up there… Don’t do that.

If something is lacking in your relationship try having an actual conversation with your significant other.

Conversation, what like, say what I actually mean?…

BY GOLLY SHE’S GOT IT

Yes, you don’t need to be rescued. Save yourself

You don’t need to be the damsel in distress .

You don’t need to put on acts or play games to get some sort of response… I mean…. What is that???

Live in the present.

Have a problem in the relationship? Talk about it!!

And please please please do not bitch and moan to your friends about how you didn’t get a viral YouTube video worthy proposal.

BUT IM AMAZING AND I DESERVE THAT!

No, it’s just become this weird trend. Chill.

What happened to focusing on the ENGAGEMENT instead of the proposal??…

You wonder why the divorce rate is 50%

Hmmm

Take control. Be yourself. Stop playing games.